The Trouble With Normal (Is It Always Gets Worse), Part 2

Wuhan, it turns out is a city that’s the same size as New York. Yet it’s only the ninth biggest city in China. The U.S. has one city (the Big Apple) with more than five million residents; China, 19 of them. Which along with it being about 5000 miles removed from the nearest port on our shore, explains why three months ago most of us had never heard of it. Until, that is, people who shopped in a “wet meat” market started getting sick, and in some cases dying with what originally seemed to be a weird pneumonia.

That was around Christmas time, but due to both the Chinese government’s secrecy and our own fascination with efforts to impeach the president and all those TV singers wearing a mask, we didn’t really begin to hear about the Corona Virus, or Covid 19, until about a month later.

The first news reports seemed bad, but also seemed almost irrelevant to us here. Yes, thousands were sick there but not here and China, seemingly to their credit looked like they had gone to lengths to contain it. It was downright bizarre to watch news reports from China – not even just Wuhan, but other major cities – and see huge modern expressways into skyscraper-sprouting skylines completely deserted; see reporters talking in malls bigger and shinier than ours which were modern, gleaming … and empty.

Then somehow, Iran became infected. Then Italy. People got worried. Japan shut down their whole school system for a month, despite not reporting many cases. Italy quarantined the whole northern half of their land. Then a couple dozen people contracted it on a cruise ship off the California coast and the president didn’t want to allow it to dock. All for a disease which we initially were told was nothing worse than the flu, which we already have over here and kills thousands of people a year, and for which we do nothing other than suggest people get an annual shot that may or may not help prevent it. It made very little sense.

It really seemed like it wasn’t our problem until very recently. That’s the striking thing – how quickly our world has changed. Not as fast as if a jet had flown into a building, but quickly nonetheless. And the impact might be just as resonating.

The first sign things were really haywire was only about two weeks back, when the NBA suddenly suspended their season, only a couple of weeks short of beginning their playoffs. Hours after that announcement, we found one Utah player had the illness. Then two. Then four New York ones. I was dumbfounded when I read that news before going to bed that night, less than two weeks back now. Personally, I don’t care for basketball, so it mattered little at all to me, but it was shocking because it matters to millions of people, and generates hundreds of millions, billions even, of dollars. You don’t just erase dozens of games (many with 18000 or so tickets pre-sold for them) at a drop of the hat. Within 24 hours, the NHL had followed suit and the writing was on the wall for baseball which was ramping up to full speed about a week and a half away from opening the regular season. A day or two later, MLB had stopped all spring training games and delayed the opening of the season to who knows when. That’s when it started to become a bit of a real annoyance to me… and people began to panic.

Fast forward only about three days from there and we get to two Saturdays back. By now, the U.S was up to a few thousand known cases, and about 11 or so fatalities, mainly in one old age home in the Seattle area. It seemed alarming, but still entirely controllable. Not to the masses though.

I ventured out to one of the larger mid-town supermarkets that Saturday night and left basically empty handed. Entire aisles had been cleaned out as if a Biblical plague of locusts had descended. There was not one roll of toilet paper to be found, nor paper towel. Only a handful of loaves of bread remained in the 40-foot aisle, and those were mostly those oddball “organic, gluten-free, quinoa with fig bits” loaves that sell for about $6. Or actually, don’t sell. Most of the canned goods were gone. The next afternoon at Walmart, more of the same. No milk or eggs either. And that’s about when the craziness really set in.

We know a couple in Austin who weren’t feeling well. We see them about once a year. Somehow, communications lines got crossed and there was a rumor they had Corona Virus. The Kiddo here told someone at her workplace that and the boss jetted in like a 747 into an office tower and told her to leave immediately and not set foot back in the store until she’d been tested and could prove she was corona-negative. This for a teen girl who was showing no symptoms.

Her mom and I kind of rolled our eyes and sighed, and said well, fine if that’s what they say we’d better take you to a hospital and have you tested. Mother phoned both of the large regional hospitals only to be told they had no tests available. On Monday we found that there was testing in a city 80 miles away… but you had to have symptoms and be referred by a doctor. We began to realize why the current administration was being raked over the coals for not handling this crisis well. Not handling it at all actually.

The kiddo tried to explain that to her manager, and the latter reluctantly let her come back to work in the store which had by then cut its hours. All a moot point now as that retailer has shut all of its doors until some time in April at best.

Well you know the rest, because it seems like whether you’re in Tennessee or Florida or north of the border in Ontario, it’s the same. We’ve had a week where people are panicking, lines form around the block two, three hours before supermarkets open in the morning with people eager to have a chance at getting a 6-pack of toilet paper or case of bottled water and by mid-day, most shelves in the food and cleaning aisles are empty as if the Grinch had just gone through leaving one crumb too small for even a mouse.

On the plus side, city streets which are usually gridlocked at 4 PM are a nice easy glide and the gas to do so cheaper than it’s been for years, because people have nowhere to go. Businesses are shut down, you can’t go out to eat or watch the game (which isn’t taking place anyway!) , telecommuting has in 10 days gone from the unlikely and a perq of the few to the way offices do business now.

My sweetie works in a large, modern office for a large local company. She handles customer inquiries and complaints, quite well I must say. Flu swept through it last winter, the company seemed not to notice. Corona though, is a different breed of virus. By mid-week last week, they were asking workers to work from home. Today she started doing so, for the forseeable future. The company even sent home one of her large monitors so she could use a bigger screen than her laptop offers. So far, it’s going well though she already misses some of her “team members” and her bigger, liftable desk there. Which is understandable to me, as I’ve found that the thing that makes most jobs mentally worthwhile is the co-workers you interact with and the friendships you make there.

Of course, it’s not just her, nor just offices. Can you imagine being an NBC exec and suggesting three months ago, “I think we should prepare for when Savannah Guthrie and Al Roker have to do the Today Show from their own living rooms and our nighttime talk show guests will be being interviewed remotely via Skype?” The company would’ve shown you the door and stuffed a map to the local mental hospital in your pocket on the way out. Yet that too is the new reality.

It’s scary. The illness seems random. Some have it and barely feel “under the weather”, others get it and are in the ground a week later. That’s scary. In Italy and elsewhere, it seems to explode like a bomb after the public makes real efforts to do what we’re told – wash hands, stay indoors and so on. That’s scary. Every day that passes makes it less likely fans like me will be watching baseball this year, or like my dad, the Olympics this summer and that’s … well, not exactly scary, but mind-blowing nevertheless.

Eventually, we’ll go back to normal. But what will the new “normal” be? It might be bad but maybe, just maybe it won’t be that scary….

8 Replies to “The Trouble With Normal (Is It Always Gets Worse), Part 2”

  1. It just snuck up on most of us. For me, it was the night after Trump’s speech that it went nuts. When I saw people’s reactions the next day I knew it was bad.
    It’s just so damn surreal. Now it’s official…I’ll be at home for a while now. The hardest part is I have allergies…every time my sinuses drain and my throat is scratchy…I’m thinking…hmmm.

    Never dreamed in a million years this would happen.

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    1. Yeah, I know what you mean. I have allergies too though they’ve not been that bad lately. Do you have a lot of southern pine in Nashville? I remember in Atlanta there was about a week in spring when everyone was sneezing and you’d go out to a car that was yellow from pollen blown off the trees.
      Yeah, who could have guessed this would happen? Maybe a bit of karma because we (as a society at least) used to feel so superior to countries behind the Iron curtain in the ’80s who’d have such limited supplies of many goods and would spend hours lining up for the few they could get. We figured we’d never have a problem like that…

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      1. Yes we have pine and all kinds of goodies for allergies. Middle Tn is ranked as one of the worst in the nation for allergies. Funny…today they are much better…no dry throat today.

        A little bit of blowback coming our way. Something I should have mentioned in your Part 1…the one thing that Americans seemed to learn during 9/11 was that there was other countries out there and not just us. We are just sharing the world…we didn’t own it.

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      2. Understand entirely… I’m the king of allergies … a real trendsetter in fact. I was one of the few in my generation to have a peanut and tree nut allergy…now it’s all the rage! I really have to watch what I eat. All things considered my allergies aren’t as bad here, nor were they in Atlanta as they were in Ontario , although up there it was mainly fall with ragweed though the last couple of years there I had some springtime issues too.
        Maybe America will look outwards a little more in the future, I don’t know. Am going to try to consider some of the longterm ramifications of this all in the next part of the blog.

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  2. Maybe the allergies are worse where you grow up? Oh I cannot imagine not eating peanut butter! lol.

    That is a good topic to continue on. I mean…it won’t just be..Ok everyone go out and shop now! No every place will have to be cleansed…and cleansed well. Gas pumps…every public surface. It’s going to be a mess…plus controlling out breaks

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    1. yep, that’s my part 3. It’s all a guessing game other than things will be different for sure.
      I think allergens were more numerous up north, although they were perhaps a bit more seasonal. Likewise with stinging insects– we had a HUGE problem with wasps (yellow jackets in particular) late in the summer into fall, really made being outside and eating, almost being outside period, a problem in September and until the first hard frost. Don’t see that level of abundance here, although we do have a greater risk of bee swarms. But down here, bees and wasps can be out any day of the year… didn’t see many hornets flying in Ontario in January!

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      1. Oh yea…wasps are the worst. Bumble Bees never gave me any trouble. They seem to mind their own business…not wasps…as you know they will dive for you.

        Allergies…today I could have sworn I had a fever but it was sinus…I went outside and walked Martha…after that I was cool again and could breathe.

        I would not have guessed about the stinging insects in the North as much…snakes either for that matter.

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      2. I read a thing on twitter yesterday that their pollen count was worst in 5 years. I imagine it’s similar here, a couple of hours away, don’t know if the Tennessee situation is similar, but it might be. Lots of people having allergy woes right now and feeling anxious about it.
        Bumblebees are not likely to bother you unless you sit on one (which my Mom did accidentally years ago) in which case, I can’t really blame them. I actually took some photos in a wildflower field of them some years ago, was a little scary but got some neat images and didn’t feel too at risk. Would not do that with wasps.


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